Story II  ·  Feel Your Emotions · Choose Your Actions

The Lost Sandal

"Feeling it and acting on it are two different things."

Steve, Kynthos, and Grandfather set out carrying baskets of warm bread

The bread was still warm when they left the house.

Seven-year-old Steve carried the larger loaf.

Five-year-old Kynthos carried the smallest one — carefully, with both hands.

He kept checking it was still there.

"It will not run away," Grandfather said.

"I know," said Kynthos.

He checked again.

Steve and Kynthos hop across the stream on stepping stones

To reach the neighboring farm, they had to cross a shallow stream.

Grandfather took both loaves first, stepped from stone to stone without trouble, and set the bread safely on the far bank.

Steve hopped across after him.

Kynthos stepped out. Then slipped.

Kynthos falls into the stream with a great splash

Splash!

He scrambled back to his feet — cold, wet, and gasping.

But his sandal was floating.

"No — no!"

He ran along the bank after it.

Kynthos reaches out as his sandal floats away on the current

The current moved faster than his little legs.

The sandal tumbled around one rock.

Then another.

Then disappeared.

Kynthos sits on a stone crying, Steve and Grandfather stand nearby

Kynthos sat on a stone.

His jaw was tight. His eyes were full.

"It's not fair!"

"I loved those sandals!"

"I don't want to walk home!"

Grandfather sits down quietly beside Kynthos at the water's edge

Steve opened his mouth. "It's just a—"

Grandfather gently shook his head.

Instead he sat beside Kynthos on the stone.

He did not rush. He did not lecture.

He simply sat.

Grandfather holds Kynthos gently and asks him a quiet question

After a few minutes, he asked quietly:

"Can your tears bring it back?"

Kynthos wiped his face.

"No."

"Can your anger?"

"No."

"What can you still choose?"

Kynthos looked down at his bare foot.

"...I can keep walking."

"And?"

"...I can be careful with the next pair."

Steve kneels and offers Kynthos one of his own sandals

They stood up.

Grandfather gathered the bread again.

Steve looked at his brother. Then at his own sandals.

He knelt down and removed the right one.

"If we switch every few minutes..."

"...neither of us has to walk barefoot the whole way."

Grandfather smiled but said nothing.

Sometimes the lesson is learned without words.

Steve writes on his wax tablet by candlelight while Kynthos watches

That evening Steve scratched on his wax tablet.

Kynthos leaned over to look.

"Is that about me?"

"Sort of," Steve said. "You lost a sandal. But you didn't lose yourself."

Kynthos was quiet for a moment.

"I almost did."

Both brothers asleep in bed, the wax tablet resting beside the lamp
Steve writing on his wax tablet
That evening, Steve scratched on his wax tablet

I cannot choose what I lose.

I can choose what I do after it.

Virtue Learned

Feel your emotions. Choose your actions.