Story XXV

The Wall and the Weakness

Virtue: Accountability & Capability
"The gem cannot be polished without friction, nor man perfected without trials." — Seneca
Steve and Kynthos watch a baby goat trying to jump a wall.

Steve and Kynthos were in the courtyard with a small baby goat. The goat was trying to hop onto a low stone wall, but its legs were clumsy and it kept sliding back down.

Kynthos lifts the goat onto the wall.

Kynthos, feeling bad for the struggling little goat, walked over and gently picked it up, setting it carefully on top of the wall.

The goat waits for Kynthos to lift it.

Later, the goat approached the wall again. But instead of trying to jump, it simply sat at the bottom and looked up at Steve & Kynthos, waiting to be lifted.

Steve stops Kynthos from lifting the goat.

Kynthos reached down to lift the goat again, but Steve quickly stepped in and grabbed Kynthos's arm to stop him.

"Don't lift him!"

Steve explained firmly.

"If you always carry him, his legs will never get strong. You are making him weak."

Steve explains the lesson to Kynthos.

Steve pointed to the goat's thin legs. "He has to struggle. That's how he learns to jump on his own."

Grandfather smiles from the doorway.

Grandfather, who had been watching from the doorway, smiled proudly at Steve's wisdom and Kynthos's realization.

Kynthos encourages the goat to try again.

Kynthos realized Steve was right. He stepped back, looking a bit sad but determined, and encouraged the goat to try again without lifting it.

The baby goat finally jumps the wall.

After a few more clumsy attempts, the baby goat finally kicked its strong little legs and hopped to the top of the wall all by itself. The brothers cheered.

A close-up of an ancient wooden wax tablet with Kynthos's handwriting etched into it.
That evening, Kynthos wrote on his wax tablet:

Do not carry what must learn to walk.

Doing it for them builds weakness.

Virtue Learned

Accountability & Capability
There is a difference between helping someone learn and removing their need to learn. By constantly rescuing others from their struggles, you deny them the opportunity to build their own strength. True compassion means allowing others to face the difficulty they need to grow.